Being in touch with others in your situation can be a lifeline for the NT partner in a relationship. That connection can come as a great relief, validating how you’ve felt and taking away feelings of frustration and isolation.
In all your getting, get understanding.
It is common within an AS/NT relationship for the NT partner to find that, over time, their social life diminishes. Whilst the AS partner may find lengthy or frequent social interaction exhausting and will need to spend time alone in order to ‘recharge their batteries’, the opposite is true for the NT partner. Meeting up can be a great way to learn from others and to share experiences about the often frustrating life of loving an adult with Asperger’s Syndrome.
We will post Meetups on this page. If there isn’t one in your area yet and you’d like to start one, please write to us at meetups@different-together and let us know. We’ll update this page as often as we are notified of new meetings. We hope to have Meetups throughout the UK and further afield before too long!
Please come and join us if you can make any of these Meetups:
Worcester: Coffee and chat – Thursday 9 August
London: Meet, support, vent – Sunday 12 August
Bovey Tracey: Coffee and chat – Monday 13 August
Northampton: Coffee and chat – Thursday 16 August
Leeds: Coffee and chat – Saturday August 25 August
Worcester: Coffee and chat – Thursday 30 August
Exeter: Coffee and chat – Monday 3 September
Warrington: Lunch and chat – Wednesday 5 September
Reading: Coffee and chat – Tuesday 11 September
London: Meet, support, vent – Tuesday 11 September
Bovey Tracey: Lunch and chat – Tuesday 18 September
Worcester: Coffee and chat – Thursday 20 September
Exeter: Coffee and chat – Monday 1 October
Worcester: Coffee and chat – Thursday 11 October
Bovey Tracey: Coffee and chat Saturday 13 October
London: Meet, support, vent – Saturday 13 October
London: Meet, support, vent – Tuesday 13 November
London: Meet, support, vent – Sunday 9 December
Halifax/Hebden Bridge: monthly meetings, alternating between lunchtimes in Halifax and evenings in Hebden Bridge. Organised by Calderdale Aspergers.
Kathy Marshack, author of “Going over the edge?” used Meetup to start a group in her home town of Portland, Oregon. Her initiative meant the group grew quickly in numbers and now has a membership of over 600 members!
Please Contact us if you would like to advertise a Meetup.